I want more than walks… but I’m scared of making things worse
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Everyone tells you:
“Walking is great postpartum!”
“Just start with walking.”
And yes—walking can be wonderful.
But there comes a point where:
- Walking isn’t scratching that “I miss feeling strong” itch
- Your mood, anxiety, or stress would really benefit from more challenge
- You’re curious about pilates, weights, or more structured training
…yet you’re scared.
- What if lifting makes prolapse or diastasis worse?
- What if you undo your healing?
- What if you start…and regret it?
Let’s talk about how to move *beyond* walking without sacrificing your healing.
Walking is a chapter, not the whole book
Walking helps with:
- Circulation and gentle conditioning
- Mental health and getting out of the house
- Reintroducing light load through your pelvic floor and joints
But walking alone doesn’t fully address:
- Core strength and pressure management
- Upper body strength for holding, feeding, and carrying baby
- Hip and glute strength for long-term pelvic support
- The kind of resilience you want for running, lifting, or more demanding exercise
That’s where pilates + strength come in.
How to safely level up from “just walking”
Instead of jumping to intense classes or heavy lifting, here’s a more supportive progression:
1. Upgrade your foundation
- Add 2–3 short sessions per week of pilates-based core and mobility
- Focus on breath, alignment, and gentle activation of deep core + pelvic floor
- Keep it symptom-free: no pain, no bulging, no heaviness
2. Introduce low-load strength
- Start with:
- Sit-to-stands
- Hip hinges
- Wall push-ups or incline push-ups
- Gentle rows with a band or light weights
- Use your pilates awareness (breath + core) in each rep
3. Progress your load, not your impact
- Gradually increase weights before adding jumping or running
- Stick with controlled, full-range movements
- Monitor your body’s response over the next 24–48 hours
4. Add impact if/when ready
- Only once your core and pelvic floor tolerate strength work well
- Start with tiny doses: a few short jog intervals, small hops, or low-impact HIIT
- Always let symptoms guide your progression
“Will I make my symptoms worse?”
Here’s what we know:
- Completely avoiding load and strength isn’t protective long-term—it can leave you feeling more fragile.
- Thoughtful, graded strength and pilates work can support:
- Core function
- Pelvic floor resilience
- Confidence in your body again
But if you notice:
- Worsening heaviness or bulging
- New or increasing leaking
- Pain that doesn’t settle with rest
…that’s your cue to pause and adjust your plan.
(And of course, anything concerning or persistent should be discussed with your healthcare provider. This isn’t a substitute for medical care.)
How I can guide you beyond “just walking”:
🎀 Core Repair Training Plan
Perfect if you’re ready for *more* but want to be smart about it:
- Pilates-based core repair + progressive strength
- Clear, step-by-step phases to move beyond just walking
- Built for real postpartum bodies—not generic fitness levels
🎀 Online Coaching
For personalized guidance through the “I’m nervous, but I want this” stage:
- We’ll start where you are, not where you think you “should” be
- You’ll get customized workouts, symptom check-ins, and progressions
- You’ll never have to guess if you’re “overdoing it”—we’ll figure it out together
You’re allowed to want more than walks.
You’re allowed to be strong, cautious, and deeply caring for your healing—all at the same time. 🤎